Saturday, December 22, 2012

How Love Makes Sex Far better

By Jane Long


It is difficult for me to chat about Love without getting extraordinarily "spiritual" so I will not even try! I think that Love is not just an emotion, it is a real energy that somehow links us all at a deeper level. Now, you can agree with me or not but I do invite you to test this out before you think I likely could be a total quack. Get your companion to lie down ; face up or face down, it is of no importance. Think about the incontrovertible fact that before you lays another Soul who, like you, is pacing their way through life, frequently suffering, occasionally feeling happy, learning all of the time, making an attempt to better themselves, making an attempt to overcome the Problems that growing up and education might have prompted. We're all frail, we are all wanting love and comradeship and proximity.

In addition, in every individual there is a Divine spark, something simply wonderful that will express itself during any creative process. Permit the love for your chum to flow. Pardon them for the minor irritations or annoyances they incite in you every now and then, and recognize that you yourself regularly incite the same sort of irritation or disappointment in your better half.

It's not all about lovemaking. When your heart is open and you are feeling the love flowing, place your hands on you partner's body and let them to rest. Listen. Be aware of the messages their body is sending. Permit your hands to move where your instinct recommends. Don't think. Don't massage. Just rest your hands and feel. Apply pressure according to what you're feeling is right, or "wash" your mate's body with sweeping movements ( typically they are going from the centre of the body towards the outlying regions ). When you are feeling you are done, lie down next to your companion and wait for them to come out of the relaxation. Talk of the types of sensations you had and how you feel toward each other, and what's changed since before the exercise.

If you aren't in a stable relationship I suggest that you Like anyhow. How is that possible? It's possible because all Souls are deserving of Love and you should work on yourself until that starts to become clear to you. "Bad" people are really only people that are suffering, and if they're suffering it's possibly due to something or things which were inflicted on them during their lives by others - victims making other victims. We're all like that to some level.

True unconditional Love can be life changing, and if you're a mature enough person to be willing to deliver that, then there is no methodology that will match what your lover will receive and give you back ten times. With issues of ethicality apart, it's definitely possible to love extraordinarily in a "one night stand". Love should not be enviously hoarded as though it were some finite energy. The reality is the more Love you give, the more Love you've got to give! So why can't you Love an individual you barely know and nourish them with a life changing energy if you have the possibility, especially realising that this can just about instantly connect you to your better half and make the whole event noteworthy?

Adopt Loving behavior and she'll pull out all of the stops and give herself to you absolutely. The "L word" comes in a three-some with other 2 words, the "H word" and the "R word" - Honesty and Respect. If you adopt Loving behaviour with the individual that lies before you and treat them with Truth and Respect, you can virtually not get that wrong! You'll do no damage, but make a considerable number of pleasing and emotionally nutritive circumstances which will generally make you become a nicer person.




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